Monday, September 20, 2010

bestfriendship



“A friend is someone who is there in your time of need, someone who has their own little ways to put a little magic in your life, someone who makes you smile even on your gloomiest days, someone you turn to for laughter or wiping away tears. A bestfriend is a friend who never fails to sieze the day and make it that slightest bit close to perfection. They are the people who posseses the quality of a friend with a little something extra, they are the ones I treasure"

Platted bracelets, half-hearted necklaces worn around the neck with the words "bestfriends" engraved into halves, a writting or two on eachothers arms saying 'biffle'. Recognise it? Of course you have- it's the cliché world of friendships but in all honesty just because you've ticked all the boxes of what I mentioned, a real bestfriendship is not determined based on threads, silver chains or even ink; it's the meaning behind it that tells a story. I'm blessed to have it all. The ink, the engraved writing but also the real meaning of whats written. Simple enough, to me the saying 'it's not quantity, it's quality' applies, I have four bestfriends whose gone through thick and thin with me. You can have a thousand facebook friends but at the end of the day do you know them them all? I know everyone on my fb and I have hundreds of friends on it but when it comes to bestfriends, I don't need a million I just need one (or in my case four) being who they are already. In all honesty it's not like the beggining of a fairytale, it was never "since the moment I saw them I knew some day down the track I'll be bestfriends with them", I thought maybe good friends but thats possibly it? Now they're the people whose hugs in the mornings I want most, the people whose smiles brighten up my day, the people whose little quirks I can see even with my eyelids shut tightly, the people who has to listen to every one of my stories, my 'it's going to be okay' when all the tears are gone and my cries are tearless and the people I run to when something hillarious or amazing happens. Their names are Putri, Nabiha, Nisa and Kamalia, or otherwise better known as PinNK. And I'll let you in on a little secret: I love them. The reason why is that they are the most amazing ship i've ever been on, the ship of our bestfriendship.

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